Alcoholism as a Disease, Not a Weakness Friday, August 15, 2008

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Alcoholism is a disease in which drinkers have lost the ability to control their drinking, leading to physical and mental harm and loss of ability to behave in a socially acceptable manner. Alcoholism is a chronic, progressive, pathological condition that affects the nervous and digestive system, caused by the inability to stop drinking despite adverse consequences such as loss of job, family, and health. The disease is potentially fatal, however the most disturbing and debilitating part of alcoholism is the loss of self-respect, the possible job loss, and the toll it takes on the alcoholics family. There is also indication that there may be a genetic component with alcoholism.

The National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence defines alcoholism as characterized by “impaired control over dinking…and distortions in thinking, most notably denial.” This means that for many alcoholics, they are unable to make a decision to stop drinking without the help of others.

Symptoms of the disease include but are not limited to sneaking drinks, lying about the amount consumed, irritability when alcohol is not available, mood swings, loss of appetite, a puffiness of the face, job loss and a high number of traffic tickets.

Family members need to develop an awareness of the disease and talk with the alcoholic. Most alcoholics are in denial and talking to the person about their disease can be very difficult. Choose a time when the person is sober. In addition, talking to the person after an alcoholic problem as occurred, such as a family argument, or a drunken driving ticket, for example, may be a good time to talk. Unfortunately waiting for a problem to occur from alcoholic behaviors can have serious consequences.

Family members coping with an alcoholic or addict can cause a great deal of stress in the family life. Therefore, there are support groups for Al-Alteen for children and teenagers. Al-Anon is for the spouse or loved one that has to cope with an alcoholic. These groups teach family members on how to cope with the alcoholic and process their emotions.

There are studies that want you to believe that alcoholism is not a disease. They are wrong. Alcoholism is a disease and while there is no cure, it is treatable. If it were not a disease, insurance companies would not pay for treatment.

Home Insurance – The Storm that saved my house

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When, before I arrived shaken and financially distraught, clinging onto the so-called housing ladder, I was renting a house at a rent that was more than the potential mortgage payments for a mortgage that the bank wouldn’t give me. Well, technically, it was a house, if you can attribute that term to something that possesses walls, doors and a roof. It was an overpriced problem. But the experience gave me a valuable insight into how a simple home insurance policy is a handy tool in the worldwide war between landowner and tenant.


The utilities were to say the least, inconsistent. Whether it was a faulty tap or the failure of the entire electrical system, the owner of the house had a rather dysfunctional attitude to the legal obligations of the tenancy agreement she was so keen for me to sign.

She also had a habit of going away on holiday for a month which, given the weekly occurrences of domestic problems surmountable to determine the house uninhabitable, made me hate her. It was my £500 a month going out and I was getting nothing but exasperation and financial and mental expenditure in return.

To my polite, courteous, factual letters outlining ‘work to be done’ or ‘issues to be resolved’ her standard written response was literally: ‘Sorry to here you are having so many problems, perhaps you should move out.’

That would have been fine, had I had the time, energy, and somewhere to move out to. More so, there were advantages to the house. It was a quiet area. I’d previously lived in a street that seemed unpoliceable, lawless and in a constant state of anarchy. Screeching kids and drunken women fighting would greet me as I returned from work each evening, and usually as I left in the morning. I’d had enough of frying pans and fires; this time I was going to stand my ground.

One night there was a ferocious storm. From the detritus on the ground and in the trees I didn’t have to look at the house to know what was missing and what was still on. Both the composition and contents of what appeared to be most of the roof were now features of the front garden.

Making their way down the street were various uniformed figures of authority, each with their own agenda of health and safety, environmental protection and social welfare. One of them approached me and on inspection declared my overpriced hovel no longer fit for human habitation. As if it ever was.


The landlady’s home insurance company had to re-house me – in a plush, expensive hotel for 3 months while they re-did the house, not just repairing the storm damage, but after inspection by various authorative busybodies, a whole range of other faults.Her selfishness and greed had backfired. She was now compelled to fix everything out of her own pocket as the home insurance only covered the weather damage. Then I moved out into my own place. Ha ha.

About the Author
Sarah Maple is a writer and quite confused about his landlady's attitude towards proper home insurance